My truck stock with 4.30s (TowBoss) turns at 2,000RPMs at 60 (245/75R17's). Truck will haul with zero concerns, and I couldn't see me running a higher gearing in it. (BTW, the DRW 05'-'07 trucks, 4.10s were the standard axle ratio, with 3.73 as an option)
I think some of it is the power you are wanting to put down, and if its going to see action on the strip, I wouldn't go much lower than 4.30s (due to breakage concerns of the pinion, in a high HP/Tor application). However, I don't think you'd be unhappy with 4.56's, if you can find a strong enough set for what you are planning to use the truck for. 4.88's would probably be overkill.