I've done a good bit of looking and for me the Buckstop Outback bumper will be the one I'm going with. I like the Baja look (like Trail Ready's version) but want more protection for the headlights fenders and hood. With the buckstop, I like that I can remove the grill guard without having to remove the whole bumper. I also like that the center section is 1/4" plate whereas most others are 3/16".
Lots of good options out there depending on your personal preference on aesthetics and your budget. Road armor (not sure if they've addressed there customer service issues), trail ready, and ranch hand all have a pretty good following.