Wow this is an exciting thread. First I have issues with the legitimacy of anything you say. Mainly because a year ago, you were on here talking about how CFD's turbo kit was the hottest thing since sliced bread. So based on your eye for quality, I have major issue with you judging anybody else's quality.
Secondly, I've learned this real quick, after-market diesel parts, especially with a newer platform, your gonna wait. No, ifs and's or buts. It sucks, but that's how it is. If you wanted your truck in 2 weeks, you should have taken it to a ford dealership.
And lastly, your expectation of getting something free because they look longer than expected is horse ****. If you don't like the time period, take your money and your broken truck somewhere else. You don't deserve a free air filter, hand job or whatever else you can dream of. Clearly they ran into difficulties, fixed the issue and explained too you. I dont see what the issue is here.