Ok well sorry to keep dragging this thread out lol just wanted to let everyone know I finally got them to pick up the tires on 12/02. Tracking said they were delivered on 12/08. I got the refund on my card today 12/19.
It took me about a week of leaving voicemails in their warranty line until I finally had someone from the new orders department write them and email for me.
If nothing else, this was a good learning experience to not buy tires over the Internet and not to buy retreads lol.
I ended up with the new BFG AT2s and their pretty awesome, almost no weight to balance, great off road and they are dead silent on paved roads.
I apreciate everyone's comments and input on this thread. Hope yall have a great Christmas and New Years!