my only comment, is your using a rcd convertor. if you want rcd backing/warranty, you need to run the fluid they recommend. or the fluid they specifically tell you you can run, if not the recommended.
if you run something they dont like, you will get no backing. thats just standard business, and 100% acceptable.
in other words, you can run what you want, in anything you have. but to get support, or warranty, you need to run recommended fluids.
regardless what you think should be in it, or what you want in it, or what arm chair quarterbacks say, or key board geniuses, recommended fluids is almost always the way to go.
if rcd wants dexIII in their convertor, and it they say it wont hurt the rest of the trans, then its their baby, thats what you run.