In my older auto truck, I actually preferred it to shift into OD around 45 under light throttle, that way if you were just cruising back roads / what have you, you could allow it to do so. If I needed more time in third I always used the button, because you couldnt do the opposite (force it in to OD when in 3rd if the tuning wont allow it)
Then I got my 6 speed, and if its not in the right gear, I have nobody to be upset with other then myself :hammer:
I feel like your personal transmission strategies change depending on mood/load/road conditions (mountainous vs flat) etc. And I am afraid that nobodies tuning (other then perhaps yourself) will get it 100%. Though I will admit with that old truck, Jody had a pretty good transmission tune that worked for 90% of my applications.
No full-auto trans strategy can ever be right except under one condition. Full-manual auto is the answer. You select the gears when you want, like a ZF, but without having to run a trans that sucks.
I'm considering having the clutch pedal run the converter lockup and using a standard H pattern shifter with a 4R100.
I've also toyed with the idea of removing the fluid coupler in the converter and running the discs alone with the clutch pedal modulating the PWM converter lockup valve to run the clutch just like in a manual, except it's fluid cooled, has TONS more capacity and has only as much resistance as you want to add a spring for...
Plus, when you want to hual ass you don't touch the clutch pedal, just slap the shifter into the next gear...
And when you're towing, you push the pedal in, make the shift and let the pedal out for a smooth shift that an auto just can't do when towing heavy unless you want to unlock on the shifts, which is hard to control.